Just Doing Life
To Have a Village, You Have to Be a Villager
To have a village, you need to be a villager. So much of life is shaped by the people we choose to surround ourselves with. I’ve always been drawn to the doers—the people who roll up their sleeves, say yes to being part of things, and get shit done. They are the...
Be A Simple Man
My son got married this weekend. It was a two-day celebration filled with fun, laughter, old friends, family, dancing, and love. So much love. Love for who they were as little ones. Love for their younger days. Love for who they are now. And love for who they are...
Delayed, Rerouted and Reminded
I had a painful day of travel last week. What was supposed to be a simple three-hour trip home from Eugene, Oregon, turned into a seventeen-hour ordeal. Four flights. Two missed connections. An overnight stay in an unexpected airport with three hours of sleep. And one...
It Was Never Just a Field
Some places don’t know what they mean to us. This week, I drove past the field where my boys played youth football. It’s on the other side of town, so I rarely make my way over there anymore. But when I do, it brings back more memories than my heart can hold. To...
They Came Home Different
Your college kid just finished their freshman year. Hooray. You moved them out of a dorm it feels like you just moved them into. They said their goodbyes, filmed the empty dorm room TikTok, and you packed up things like the very important medical supplies box that was...
Dear Class of 2026
Dear Graduate, Congratulations. You did it. Whether you’re graduating from high school, college, trade school, grad school, or law school, you’ve reached a milestone worth pausing to honor. This isn’t just something you achieved. It’s something you became through....
The Nudge We Didn’t Know We Needed
Every now and then, you get a moment that stays with you. The kind that feels too special to keep to yourself. The kind that quietly settles into your soul and stays there. A few weeks ago, at a birthday brunch, I casually shared what I called my “Christmas Plan.” I...
Your Voice Becomes Hers
Hey Momma, Watch how you speak about yourself around your daughter. She’s listening. Watch how you talk about other women around your daughter. She’s shaping her lens. Watch how you talk about your body around your daughter. She’s deciding what to love… and what to...
Pickle-Tini’s and Parenting
This past weekend was supposed to be busy. My calendar was full — three birthday dinners, a wedding shower, and a surprise birthday brunch. One of those weekends that looks packed from start to finish. Then, on Wednesday, my phone buzzed. It was my daughter. “Mom… do...
The WTF Chapter
Last week, I was sitting with a client in her twenties. She graduated college. Got the job. Checked the boxes. On paper, her life had officially begun. But internally, she felt lost. I asked her a question I frequently ask during times of transition, “What would you...
