Relationships
The Door That Kept the Years
There is a door in my house that desperately needs to be repainted. But I refuse. It’s the door in my middle son’s old bedroom. It is dingy, marked up, and definitely not something you’d find in a home décor magazine. But for years, it was where my kids measured...
Be The Porch Light
I went to visit my oldest last weekend. I was a guest in his cozy home. Talk about a role reversal. It was one of those moments that quietly reminded me how much has changed—and how much I’m still learning about this new stage of motherhood. The stage where we step...
We All Need Mermaids
Every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday, my 82-year-old mom goes to swim class. Of course, moving her body is good for her health. But perhaps even more important is the chance to see her friends. It’s a playdate for her. These women have been swimming together for years....
The People Who Make The Drive
My oldest son coached his first game in his new role as the offensive line coach for a college football team. It’s a big step for him. He’s worked hard for this moment. The crazy hours as a graduate assistant, the missed events, and all the unglamorous parts of...
Gratitude With Nowhere to Go
Last week, I loaded up the car and drove my daughter eight hours away to begin graduate school. She’s been my buddy this summer. My sidekick, my partner in crime, the person who is almost always up for whatever I’m doing. When I pulled into the driveway after work,...
Is Your Kid a Leo
Is your kid a Leo? Not because they were born in August, but because they may be a late bloomer. One of my favorite children’s books, and one I believe every parent should revisit, is Leo the Late Bloomer. Leo is a young tiger who has not yet learned to read, write,...
It’s Not About Being Young, It’s About Being Open
I turned 58 this weekend and the day before my birthday, I went to a music festival with my daughter. My first one. Not exactly where I pictured myself spending the final day of 57. It was loud. Crowded. Colorful. A little crazy. And wonderfully different from my...
The World Needs More Offensive Linemen
Last week my husband grabbed his whistle, found his clipboard, and started eating throat drops to save his voice. Just like that, football season was back. He coaches the offensive line. The big guys whose job is to make everyone else look good. They are the...
Know When to Be Their Person
There’s a subtle shift that happens when your child becomes a teenager. It often follows them well into adulthood. The relationship changes. The rules are no longer as clear. Parenting, which once felt more straightforward, begins to require more restraint, more...
Be A Simple Man
My son got married this weekend. It was a two-day celebration filled with fun, laughter, old friends, family, dancing, and love. So much love. Love for who they were as little ones. Love for their younger days. Love for who they are now. And love for who they are...
