Self Care
Why Every Woman Needs True Trenchips
There is nothing I would not do for those who are really my friends. I have no notion of loving people by halves, it is not my nature. ----Jane Austen I am always sad when I hear women who say they don’t have female friendships. My heart hurts because they are missing...
Kelly’s Law of Attraction
The days are long but the years are short... Yesterday my oldest turned 21 years old. Like I-can-go-buy-a-bottle-of-Jack-Daniels 21. Like give-me-a-shot 21. Like I-am-a-man 21. All-day I kept thinking about the juice box drinking, Gatorade chugging, milk-shake loving...
What’s the D-Word? And How Does it Affect You?
Our world is complicated and confusing. We all know what the F-word is (slips out occasionally, some of us more than others) and we all know what the C-word (a contender for one of the most offensive words) is but what most people don’t talk about is what the D-word...
Can you pick just One Word?
Life is pretty simple. We complicate it and make things so much more difficult than it needs to be. We insist on overthinking, over-analyzing, and over exaggerating. We judge, complain, and criticize ourselves as well as others. We bury ourselves beneath the...
Girl, Drive Your Bus
Lies. We tell ourselves lies every day. We go one step further. We make ourselves believe the lies. We embrace the lies, live the lies, and define ourselves by the lies. We are so sure the lies are real that we tell other people our lies because we want others to...
The Power is in the Period
I’m coming clean. Truth time. In hopes of being authentic, I’m taking my mask off and digging deep. I’m unloading my laundry, literally. Here goes: My sock basket is never empty. (wince) As a matter of fact, I haven’t seen the bottom of it for like 8 years. I...
Dear 50…
Dear 50, You got me. I ducked and dodged you all year and you finally caught me. Time is undefeated. Everyone says you’re just a number but we both know, it’s a big number. When I was a perky little twenty-something, I thought of 50-year-olds as over the hill,...
Are You a Duffle Bag or a Dump Truck?
I over-pack. Every single time I swear, “This trip I’m only going to take what I know I will need, not take anything extra, travel light.” And yet every time, my suitcase is heavier than I expect, jammed with things I will never use or wear. A four-day trip? I bring...
Don’t Ask Me to Clean Up Your Spilled Milk
Our brain is a funny little highway in our head--a complicated processing system that takes what we input, processes it, receives a message, and then stores that message somewhere. With the help of 100 billion (give or take a few) neurons, it does this seamlessly. ...
The Warrior Woman Challenge
I’m tired of it. I’m done. I’m over it. My daughter is in middle school. I’m disheartened by the way girls treat girls. It’s upsetting and frankly, scary. We know the influence a mother has on her daughter and that modeling has much to do with how our children...
